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Thursday, 23 August 2007

  • "Working" girl

    With this entry, I officially become one of those people who blog from work. I'm hostessing for a study today, which basically means "sit in the upstairs office and wait for the participants to come, and when they do, offer them water and have them fill out the pre-test, then whisk them down to the lab...and repeat ad nauseum (nauseam?) until 5 pm. This routine means that I have ample time to do other things, like update my new planner (purchased yesterday) with everyone's birthdays (thanks, Facebook), build my Christmas card list (names only, so far...Facebook will be used, but if you would like to receive a card from me, just leave me a comment or email me your address, because who doesn't like getting non-bill mail?), search Lonely Planet and Fodor's websites for Paris to-do's (a trip that's about 10 months away), and search Wikipedia articles for random things as they pop into my mind, sort of a free-association internet browsing session. Yes, very productive. Exactly what I went to college and was hired to do.

    Anyway, now I get to create a spreadsheet, but one final thought before I hit "publish"...if we're living within reasonable driving distance of each other, we should actively be friends, don't you think? Because being post-college at a small company where one's roommate is also employed is no way to increase the size of one's Christmas card list. Or social circle, for that matter.

Friday, 20 July 2007

  • Kept

    Sidebar, before I can even begin: does anyone else think the "wow, that's a big number" in response to the number of days one's been on Xanga is patronizing? Mine is 1065, which is a big number, but still. Stop it.

    I had to create a new post because the one at the top said something about me getting promoted, as well as my initial "for-realsies" move-in with Greg...and those things happened a good 4 months ago. It was time. So here I am.

    I did get promoted, and there was about a week, probably less, that I got to enjoy my promotion, then it was all about convincing me that I wanted the next promotion...soon. Sooner than I would have been comfortable with, because I felt like they would have been promoting me to that position more out of necessity than out of the time I had put toward actually earning that goal. While I appreciate the vote of confidence...no. I was not ready to do it, and the push for a too-early promotion turned into the push that I needed to start looking for a job. Originally, I was submitting resumes and such to only colleges and JCs, hoping to get into admissions or counseling/advising, something that I felt would be relevant to what I've been considering going back to school for. However. One of our roommates said that her office, a usability testing consulting group, was looking for someone to recruit participants and work with clients to determine appropriate participant profiles, as well as some office management stuff. Because I had also been considering an MBA (I know, very different...but I'm only 23. I have some time to screw up, and really, in the spectrum of "bad" decisions, getting one master's degree over another is one that I'm willing to make if I have to), I decided to go ahead and interview for it. I got the Office Dog's business card, the interview was great, and I'm starting there on Monday. I've had the whole week off due to a typical old-workplace clusterfuck of unprofessionalism and retail environment...but who's complaining?

    My week off has been spent, in large part, with Greg's mom. His parents are out here for the week, so I get to entertain her while the menfolks are off at their jobs (she works at a small, East Coast liberal arts college, and is teaching online while she's away for the week; see above for my increased availability for this particular timeframe). We've been shopping, to tea, and to the spa (Burke Williams in Santana Row, my third spa ever, but by far the best...I kind of want to live there), and today we're going to see Hairspray. It's like I have a friend! A little sad, sure, that my social life is so limited, but good because I'm pretty sure she's willing to trade in her son for me. Also, she pays for things, like entire bottles of white wine that we consume at lunch. And sangria that we consume before dinner. Greg's dad pays for the alcohol at dinner-- and I just realized that I think his parents have brought us into the thick of a weeklong bender. Sweet.

    My dad is coming tomorrow from Modesto to meet the parents, and that'll be the last my-parent, his-parents intro that we have to do. It should be fine...I think all that skin cancer and ensuing treatment/time off work has mellowed him a lot.

    Now, to do something domestic. Again. I can't help it, I've been getting up earlier and earlier, and have all but run out of ways to waste time at home.

Tuesday, 03 April 2007

  • Shacked up...

    ...only in a less trashy way. Yes, friends, I moved in with him. And, alarmingly, the only alarming thing about it is logistical stuff like, "Where will all my shoes go?" (answer: under the bed-- thank god it's a huuuuuge sleigh bed) The seemingly more daunting, relationshippy questions, are less scary to me. "Will we be ok?" Of course we will! How could it be anything less than awesome? Well, we'll see, but all bodes well so far...

    On the work front: I'm getting promoted this month! Stay tuned for details, when I'm less absorbed in SATC, wine, and trying to cure a headache by magically putting on my glasses...

Monday, 18 December 2006

  • Currently Watching
    Heavyweights
    By David Goldman, Joseph Wayne Miller, Cody Burger, Allen Covert, Tim Blake Nelson, Nancy Ringham, Seth St. Laurent, Bobby Fain, Tom McGowan (II), Aaron Schwartz (II), Shaun Weiss, Tom Hodges, Leah Lail, Paul Feig, Kenan Thompson, David Bowe, Max Goldblatt, Robert Zalkind, Patrick LaBrecque, Jeffrey Tambor
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    Back, sort of...

    I'm enjoying my first two-day weekend in about a month and a half, and realized that the latest period in my life has gone largely undocumented. This will not do, my friends, this will not do! But because I'm too lazy to double-post here and at TM, and I like Blogger better, you guys are going to have to click on over to there. You'll like it, I promise! I have much to report...

Friday, 11 August 2006

  • Currently Listening
    Century Spring
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    Is that all there is?

    Ok. I'm working now, part-time, and am interviewing for a full-time, much-more-responsibility position with the same company (which is part of a huge corporate hoo-ha, so I probably shouldn't name names at present-- even though it's fairly easy to piece it together if you're all caught up with the Facebook and MySpace and the like). The intreviwes have gone well, and really quickly: I had an initial phone interview on Monday (when I got back from my weekend in LA, to be addressed later), a group interview on Tuesday, and then a third interview yesterday. By the end of the day, I should hear about when my last interview (with some higher-up...kind of scary) is, and then probably by the end of next week...I'll know whether I have a full-time job. It's not retail, and it's definitely not something I envisioned myself doing right after I graduated from college...but it's something that I think will be really great, if it ends up happening. And if it doesn't, going through a gazillion interviews is probably still a valuable experience, right?

    The part-time job, though, is awesome in its own right. Of course it isn't as many hours as I'd like (what with those hours translating into money, and what with my enormous debt now that I own a car), but the money is ok, and I'm getting to work with kids. And with these kids, there's a significantly smaller chance that I'm going to get bitten or spit on-- a nice and welcome change from my summer school job. It permits moments of pure idealism, too, allowing myself to think that I'm making a huge impact on the life of a child, simply by working with him for a few hours every week.

    At the same time that all this great job stuff is happening, though, other stuff is definitely suffering. Social life, for one. I knew that moving home would seriously affect most of my non-familial relationships, but I didn't realize how hard it'd be to ingratiate myself back into some kind of social crowd here. The CosAmigos are great, but they're all guys, and they have their own shit going on that I...know nothing about, and really could care less. Most of the high school people are in other locations, but hopefully the ones that are near will find it in their hearts to save me from endless nights in front of Bravo marathons and episode of Iron Chef. Oh, and the whole long-distance relationship? Is really hard. Harder because I don't have friends to constantly distract me, and also because the most contact I can usually hope for is a 20-minute (maximum) phone call (generally initiated by me, apparently the more codependent member of the couple) every day. When I was used to seeing him every day, to go into this phase where we see each other about once a month (thank God for my dad's job, allowing me to fly for free, albeit standby)...is awful and lonely. I miss the stupid things, things like online Yahtzee and deli outings on Saturday afternoons, things that we have no time for when I come for a weekend, just because I feel like I have to remind him why he likes me so much in the first place. Basically, I hate the distance. The problem is, I love the boy. Complicated, complicated.

    This is how people become workaholics, isn't it? Maybe 55-hour weeks would be a welcome change from all this empty time, just spent in the act of missing.

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